Make me the SONY VAIO W Ambassador!

A couple of weeks ago, I was approached to be one of the 6 Bloggers in the running for the position of Sony Vaio W Ambassador. Of course I said Yessss!

I just checked the Vaio W facebook site, and the voting for the Sony Vaio W ambassadors has already started. Someone has 40 plus votes already. :( I got some catching up to do.

I need your support! "Become a Fan" on the I Love The Vaio W! Facebook page. Now you can receive updates on promotions, contests, etc.... AND vote for me!!!

To vote for me, Click the photo album - Make Me The Vaio W Ambassador.

Then...Click on my pic.

And below my pic, click the LIKE button. DONE!

The winner is the one with the most accumulated Likes on the 11th of Sept.

I'll post my review of the VAIO W soon. :)

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Free Voucher:

For my readers, who emailed asking if there were any special promos at ClearSK, you can print out this voucher for $50 off any product/services there. Terms and Conditions apply. My review here

Grand Opening of TheBlogShop at Haji Lane

The Blog Shop

@ 35 Haji Lane

Was invited to the launch of The Blog Shop last Saturday afternoon. As I got dressed for the occassion, I looked in the mirror and realised that practically everything I own now are from blogshops! From top to toe, my headband from VogueFemme, Floral Dress from ClubCouture, red bag from Shoplifters and shoes from AnnYee. So for those of you who prefer to touch and try on stuff before purchasing, or window shop or simply spend a couple of hours going through racks of clothes with your girlfriends... The Blog Shop is the place to be. And yes, even though it's a retail outlet, it's at online blogshop prices.
The Blog Shop currently houses -Angelicious Creations, Keelova, Lipsyditsy, The Blush Inc, Tracyeinny, MultipleXchoice, Shopahoantics, 69dressylane, Love&Bravery, LittleRedHeels... and there's still space for more to come.
The ground floor is nicely decked out to showcase all the accessories (caps, bags, handcrafted jewellery, etc) and even a range of some really quirky looking Lomo cameras. The second floor is a shopaholic fashionistas dream... bringing you rail after rail of blogshop apparel.
I got this brown suede bomber girl jacket.I think my wardrobe is still too full... but I ended up with a bag full of clothes and shoes anyway!

Nadnut was at the event as well. Always good to see a familiar face. Btw, the guy in this pic is WeeChin... this shop is the result of his hard work.

I'll show you my loot as and when I get to wear them. Meanwhile.. here's the shoes I got from The Blog Shop that day. Me likey..

Have I teased the shopping nerve in you?

35 Haji Lane

Tel: 63966170

Open Everyday (including public hols)

11am to 10pm

Multi-national Couple Trend

Ok.. lets give this age Issue a rest for a while.

Next thing on my mind is the bi-nationality trend in dating/marriage.

No... I don't mean Malay marry Chinese, Or Indian dating Malay that kind of thing. But the surge in multi-NATIONAL couples. For instance, Singaporean man with Vietnamese/Chinese National woman.... or Caucasian man with Singaporean woman.

I think that we all have our reasons for being attracted to different nationalities. If other people are distressed by your choices, that's their own fault, not yours.

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There’s a running generalization now in our community that the most successful and most beautiful Asian women (and cheap sluts, haha) prefer to date White. We assume this after observing countless instances of successful, beautiful Asian women marrying White men. In our male-dominant male-centric tradition, we blame the Asian woman for the phenomenon.

Personally, I think... for a number of reasons, Asian men have lost the confidence to approach the particular Asian woman they want to date. Any woman they perceive as even remotely possibly maybe out of their league... they will simply walk the other way and admire from afar. While men of other races, especially White men, pursue them left and right. It thus makes statistical sense that these women would date White men, because they’re not pursued by any promising candidates from the Asian race.

In addition, Asian women who, if I may put it delicately enough, are less than conventionally appealing to the typical Asian man (maybe she talks about sex on her blog, or is too tanned, or will bust some balls), will still find avid fans among White men. (Btw, the Asian fetish issue is beyond the scope of this post).

I'm sure men who date women from other nationalities have their reasons too.

If you have a gripe about Singapore girls or men hooking up with men/women of different Nationalities... Your problem is that there is a whole world of independent, dexterous individuals who are actually just not interested in you.

[Ok... this may be the alcohol talking because I just came back from a great champagne and wine and beer type BBQ. But it is a phenomena worth discussing I think!]

Do You Want Invites To The Blog Awards?

Do you want to attend the Singapore Blog Awards at the Supper Club on the 16th of Sept??? You can Email marketing@omy.sg to request for invites - with your name, contact and blog URL. (Got this info off their Facebook event page)

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I've been tapping away at the new Sony VAIO W mini notebook. Love it! Stay tuned, will do a review in a couple of days. Bailey says," Now you got the VAIO W, you don't play with me no more...."

Meanwhile... I'm exhausted! It's one of those phases where work and events come like an avalanche... some weeks I'm soooo free, and then suddenly all my appointments and commitments come tumbling in at the same time. That's the life for me I guess.

I rather THAT than monotonous routine 9 to 5 every weekday. (I think)

Tomorrow, I am teaching a class in the morning from 9 to 12, after which I have to get back for a quick shower and change....super fast lunch (or maybe no time for lunch!) and rush to a attend the launch of a NEW store at 2pm. It's no ordinary store/boutique. Will tell you more about that after the event.

Then back for quick cuddles with Mark, and in the evening we have a BBQ at Neil's house. His whole family has relocated here as of a week ago. (Welcome!)


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Now I got to clean Bailey's cage, and paint my nails... and go sleep... tomorrow will be a very trying day!

Help Choose My Outfit For The Blog Awards!

The Blog Awards ceremony is on the 16th of September. The results will only be known at the event itself. Whatever the outcome, I'd like to thank all of you for your support and encouragement.

I thought of wearing a nice dress for the event but the theme is Bedroom, since it's held at Supperclub (Fun!). So I've decided to wear either a slip or camisole set.

Lingerie Plaza is sponsoring my outfit for the event. But I need you to help me pick the best one.

Choices:

ONE- pink cotton with clouds

Sweet but is this too boring??

TWO- Black satin polka dots with lace

I think this is cute! And the shorts will mean it's comfortable to move around in.

THREE - pink satin slip

This is pretty but it's 60cm long, will it be too short to wear on it's own??

FOUR- Pink and Lace cami and shorts

Hmmm.. I'm a bit divided with this one, not keen on the halter but I do like pink.

OK, I know it's been less than 12 hours since I ran the poll... but looks like we have a winner. Outfit number 2! So polls closed now, those who voted, thanks!

(You can leave comments if you absolutely love or hate any of it, I'd like to know.)

An Indecent Proposal

Just watched Indecent Proposal for the first time last night. And it got me thinking...

Does everyone have a price?

Let's say if you were offered $100 to sleep with someone. I can safely assume that most of you would say no (unless it was someone like Jude Law or something... in which case, you'd probably do it for free).

But if this normal random average (not Jude Law or anyone in that league... but not some deformed quasimodo either) stranger offered you a million dollars. Would you still refuse?

I don't think so. If any of you can honestly say you would NOT have safe sex with someone once for a million singapore dollars, I'd really like to hear you. A million dollars! (!!!!!!!)

Realistically though, boys and girls, how many people are willing to pay a million bucks for a little pussy or some cock?!

Furthermore, if there were someone willing to pay that price, there would be a huge number of sellers willing to meet that demand. And because the supply for such things will ALWAYS exceed the actual demand... then naturally it's a buyer's market and the sellers will undercut each other and settle for less than a million.

However, I realise that in life, the price is not necessarily financial. Some women sleep with men for validation... some others (esp when younger) do it because they feel obligated since he paid for dinner or took her shopping... some women give sex in return for commitment and affection...

I'm not sure about men though.. what have you had sex for? Is it always your own personal desire or has there ever been some other reason? For instance... pity? Haha it's true.. I had a guy friend once who was out clubbing with his male friend. Then his friend hooked up with a girl, and that girl had a girlfriend with her. He didn't find her attractive. But he felt obligated to sleep with her because he didn't have the heart to turn her down! haha

(Ivana Trump managed to find the right price)

If I were single, I think the price I'd be willing to do it for wouldn't be anywhere near a million. Especially if the guy was cute looking. But now that I am in a relationship, would I ? I think I would if the price were right and my partner agreed to it. Of course it's got to be a whopping amount of money that would be significant enough to make a differene to our lives.

So the question here is no longer... would you sleep with someone for money.... but rather.. What or How much would you be willing to do it for?

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On a side note.... I got an email from a reader a few days ago asking to buy my used underwear! There's a price for everything isn't there!

And in case you were wondering... no, of course I did not sell. But it wasn't morality that made me say no... but simply because I didn't think that any amount of money one would be willing to pay for my underwear would realy be worth my while.

(They sell it from vending machines in Japan though! Imagine that!)

Be A Shoplifter

If I never stepped into another mall again.... I'd be alright. In fact, I can barely remember the last time I bought clothes in a mall. (Think the last time was Far East Plaza months ago!)

But don't you EVER take away my internet!

I love the internet... and shopping online is getting more interesting these days with more local blogshops in the market. This means convenience, competitive pricing and best of all... a better range of stuff.

The Shoplifters... gives you the exact same trends you see in stores now... but much cheaper than retail store prices of course. How is this fair to retail stores, you ask? Well... The retail stores will have to come up with a new pull factor to get the Blogshopping crowd back. But for now, I'm the consumer... and I prefer blogshops.

My stuff from The Shoplifters: Topshop Inspired Bib Lace Dress...so feminine and sweet. It's a good length, not too short. Great for meeting friends for coffee or lunch.

This is their Candy Striped Oversized Tee. I love to wear it off shoulder, over my bikini and head to the pool.
The Shoplifters also has accessories/shoes/bags in every collection.

Check out the latest collection 24, launching at 8pm today! at The Shoplifters!

Yet Another Quick Update

Hey ya...

I've gotten a lot of positive responses for My Boobs & I. Thank you. Unfortunately, I've also had people posting their links to Fcup cookies. And saying that "it really works". And I've removed them. Not only because it's like sneaking in free advertising... but most importantly because they don't work!
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I tried a few of them last year. Tasted ok.. but screwed my skin up! Very Very Very dehydrated, and had break outs. But as you can see.... no increase in breast size. I bought a whole box that was supposed to last a month. Only managed to eat a few, and felt shitty. What a waste of money. So be careful girls.... there's a lot of gimmicky marketing ploys out there to take advantage of your insecurities.
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Trust me when I say, the only way to significantly increase your breast size is through surgery. Of course, I'm not advocating it. But the creams and stuff won't work (at best, a placebo effect), save your money!
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We had an easy Saturday... went to Neil's new home tonight. Gorgeous spacious house, fabulously done up.
Will have more pics later on as I'm sure they'll throw some fab parties there.Latest exciting piece of news for me is that I've been chosen to be one of the 6 bloggers to vie for the spot of being Sony Vaio's ambassador. Cool. Will definitely need your support for that when the time comes.

I got bored and I put a pink streak in my hair. Don't worry, it's not bleached and dyed ( I'd NEVER do that), but I just got an extension put in. Colour a bit more bold than desired. Oh well... at least it's not permanent!

All clothes from this post sponsored by VogueFemme. Including the Colour block tube dress, and pretty pink headband. I got this swishy floral skirt from them as well! :) Go check their collection out, and mention that you're my blog reader when you place your order so you'll get 20% off!

What Do Your Eyes Say About You?

The eyes. Some say the eyes are the windows to your soul. But the less cliche would just say that they are a prominent feature of your face and it will affect the way you look.

Isn't it unfair? When men have dark eye bags, and wrinkles like Benicio Del Torro above (who by the way I find so sexy.... like a cross between Dicaprio and Pitt). On men like him, dark circles look sexy, rugged and macho. In fact his dark drug addict eyes have worked to his advantage as he 's always the sexy, stoic, brooding guy in films.

Put those same flaws on Angelina Jolie, or Heidi Klum or any woman you consider attractive... and suddenly.... not so beautiful huh.

Beautiful, healthy looking eyes are a key asset to looking good. Eyebags, wrinkles and dark circles can be down to your genes, lifestyle and they tend to worsen with age. On a woman, this can make her look older and less healthy (hence less attractive). So take care of your eyes now... and you might not look like you're in a dire need for a facelift when you're 50.

Unfortunately, every one of us will be affected by dark circles or eye bags at some point of our lives. But thankfully, when it comes to being attractive, women have all the tools for deception! LOL. For ceturies women have been able to boost their attractiveness factor with glossy painted lips, fluttering fake lashes and breasts pumped up with silicone.

My quick fix after a sleepless night or stressful time - is my Eye Zone Tinted Color Essence (S$39).

It comes in a handy pen form for easy application. Best part is, it not only conceals, but cares for the skin as well.

Dab it around your eye area. I use my fingers to pat and blend it.I never used to use concealers because I always felt that the pigment was too yellow based, and it couldn't blend properly with my skin. I used it once, many years ago and was very conscious the whole time I was on a date because I felt that there were apparent pasty patches on my face!

But with this tinted essence, no worries. It blends easily because it's so lightweight yet it has enough pigment in it to cover up any dark shadows. No need for eyeshadow or hi-lights because it perks up my eye area instantly, I look and feel fresh.

Of course, even though dark eye circles are easily concealed with this fab product.... you should aim to get rid of them. I use the Eye Zone Massaging Essence (S$56).
I use it at night, and massage it gently onto my eye area. Massaging encourages circulation around the eye area while the goodness of this essence is absorbed into the skin, keeping it moisturised through the night. Dark eye circles are no longer an issue for me.

For more info on these products, check out http://www.ettusais.sg/ but why stop there...(???), check out the Beauty Buddies Program:It's A Mask-Querade

More Info On Personal Hands On Sessions Here

My Boobs And I

If you are a small boobed woman and you are reading this, chances are you have already thought about or perhaps mentioned the idea of breast implants.

I have raised the topic to similarly less endowed girlfriends, and the idea of breast implants has crossed their minds at some point in their lives too.

When I was in secondary school. I was a really late bloomer. I think I mentioned before.. I didn't get my first period until I was almost 16. I was a skinny little runt.

For years, I longed for a miracle... that they would suddenly have a growth spurt. I read up on it, and they say that most girls will grow breasts similar to their mother's size (in the genes). But I guess I wasn't most girls.

There was one boy in sec school, named Leonardo... who would constantly tease me about my boobs ( or lack of them). And when I say tease... I don't mean teasing like flirting. I mean a verbal assault and name calling. Airport runway, flat, I can't remember what else... I blocked most of it out of my brain. To make matters worse, I had a crush on his good friend Alan for like the longest time ever (...anyway, I digress).

Now, Leonardo was an awkward looking boy; tall and skinny, crusty skin ( I think it was eczema) and wasn't all that academically inclined. But did I see that then? No. All I saw was a boy who viewed me as unattractive... even ugly. And it hurt.

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Did I think of myself as unattractive? Despite the fact that I was already in magazines at the time, yes, I felt ugly and would worry that I would always be that way. The way Leonardo saw me.

The sad truth is, those who are not so well endowed are often viewed as being less of a woman or less sexy. Having small breasts is like a disease that one can fix with surgery.

Honestly, if it were as easy as clicking a few buttons on the computer (where I spend a great deal of my time anyway)... I'd get them augmented right this minute.

But breast implants involve a good deal of permanence, money and risk. Not to mention the agonising healing period after surgery (oh yes, I've watched many episodes of Dr.90210, so I consider myself quite an expert in the field of plastic surgery by now... haha).

And it doesn't help that magazine images and the media keep presenting supermodels with augmented breasts as the standard of beauty.

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In fact, I get quite pissed off whenever I read that some anorexic looking model gets pulled out of a fashion show, or a pageant queen gets criticised for being too skinny. They say she's a bad role model for young girls.

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And yet it's perfectly fine to have models and beauty queens with silicone implants? In fact, the ones with the fake breasts land Victoria Secret fashion shows, sports illustrated swimsuit covers and the Crown to the pageant. How's that promoting a healthy body image???

You know in America (and most countries actually), breast implants are so common. Girls get boob jobs for their 18th birthday. What kind of a birthday gift is that? You might as well get her a birthday card that says ‘Happy Birthday, dearest flat-chested Daughter-whom we need to pump with silicon in order to give you the sense that you are attractive! Love, Mom & Dad.”.

With the trend continuing this way... will I just cave in one day, get the implants and say .. "Bloody Hell.. why didn't I just do this sooner?! Me and my self righteous bullshit!"

I might. Possibly when I'm well into my 30s and have breastfed a couple of kids... (i.e. body not that toned, feeling old, breasts no longer pert), I might come to the conclusion then that having bigger breasts could be the very thing that would make me feel better.

But the question remains... what would I be getting implants for? For my own pleasure? Or for the opposite sex? Or am I purely just trying to fit into society? I don't know.

What I do know is that for the longest time, growing up, I worried that sex appeal and big boobs were synonymous. When I had my first real boyfriend in Junior College... I remember we were at my house watching football late one night. Everyone else had gone to bed.

And we were getting cosy when he put my hand on his crotch! I was excited. [Ah... to be young and innocent]. But you know what? I let my own inferiority and insecurity about my body get in the way of what could have been a wonderful growing up experience. No I don't mean sex! I mean the kind of magic you feel when you discover and experience things for the first time.

I remember distinctly... that I pulled my hand away thinking. Oh My God. He's huge! (ok.. I never ever saw his penis, or any other penis at that point in my life...so, HUGE was a pretty unsubstantiated term). And I never went further with him because I thought I would be short changing him.

I avoided intimacy because I felt I was flawed. And that I would disappoint.

Now that I think about it. It was so silly to have thought that way. To think that I wasn't good enough and didn't deserve him. I don't know whatever happened to him, but if I met him now, I would like to ask him what he thought of me then.

Of course, I wouldn't believe him. :)

I used to be convinced that all my boyfriends were stifling complaints about my pert-but-petite breasts. When they told me they adored my small sensitive breasts, they were obviously just being polite.

Only in recent times have I come to realise that the size of my breasts do not determine how attractive I am as a person.

It could well be that some men find women with small breasts unattractive. But the question is: What type of men are these anyway if their affections can be won by a couple more grams of breast on either side?

Hopefully, years down the road, I'll re-read this entry, and I can put my hand on my heart, which is hopefully not buried underneath a mound of silicone, and say I love myself no matter what I look like.

And for any woman to realise that you are beautiful no matter what, the world is yours.

The CherryPop Update

Hi all...

It's been a mad last 24 hours.

But I'm happy to see that almost everything has sold out in my blogshop! For those I've had to turn away, my apologies. (There'll be more sales to come)

Do make your transfers today, and email me. I'm sending items out tomorrow.

(If you have confirmed the item, but have changed your mind or cannot make a transfer by today. please do let me know. I'd hate to have to black list anyone).

CherryPop's Sale closes this Friday. But there's a mailing list on the CherryPop site where you can key in your email address, so when new stock comes in, you'll get an email.

Do take a few seconds now to click what you'd like CherryPop to sell. This would help me source for stuff you want in the next sale.






Tonight- an interesting post. Promise! :)

My Blogshop is Up and Running!

When I start sourcing for stuff for my blogshop, I will remember to keep it to about 10 different items each time only.

I just spent my night taking pics of 44 different items ok.. so damn tired now! Imagine me running up and down while the camera is on timer! haha. Next time I'll get a photographer to do the pics.

But no more complaining. It's done! The Pre-Love Collection is the result of me finally having the will power to clear out my wardrobe.

Only one off items. And there's nothing wrong with them, but they are priced at $5, $10 and $15 dollars only because I can't wait to clear them.

If it's an enjoyable experience, maybe I might keep running a blogshop :)


Click here to start Shopping!

(By the way, I need to hit the sack.. so I'll only check my email tomorrow, allocation of items is on first come first serve basis)

Wardrobe is Cleared!

Finally! I just finished sorting my wardrobe out.

(but not doing bags and shoes.... am sick of sorting)

Dumped a lot of stuff (which no doubt I'll start needing and missing shortly).

And saved some stuff to give my blog shop a trial run! :)
This bag below has 43 items which I picked for sale.
Most of my stuff have never been worn, or worn once, and then burried under the clothes mountain. Plus I get a lot of sponsored stuff now, so I barely have the occasion to wear any of my own clothes. [Out of principle, I will not be selling any sponsored items]

So do look out for my BlogShop sale in a day or two! I'm not sure how tedious snapping pics and uploading will be... so if you see much less than 43 items on sale.. it means I got tired of it!

If I enjoy doing this, and sales are good... I'll source overseas and open up a blogshop for good (undecided about what to sell though) :)

Women Who Date Older Men Are Gold Diggers!

In May this year, when I was in London with Mark, we took a walk one afternoon through Hyde Park. As we went past a group of girls, I distinctly heard one of them say "*cough* Gold Digger"I didn't even flinch. The last thing you want to do in a situation like this... is to give them the satisfaction of seeing that you are affected by their stupidity.
I don't know if Mark heard it but pretended not to (because he didn't want me to start getting paranoid about the issue)... or maybe he didn't hear it... or if I was just hearing things in the first place (doubt so.. if anything, I'm deaf because I don't listen well when people talk. So I think I definitely won't hear non-existent things!)
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I will re-visit the topic of dating an older man, because now I am in a serious relationship with one and have perspectives on it which I didn't have before. But I'll leave that for another day.
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Today, it's --> Are Women who date older men Gold Diggers? (What do you think?)

My answer : Not every woman who is dating an older man is doing it for the money!

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I am sick and tired of women (usually older) who bash younger women with older partners. When they give me dirty looks, I feel like shouting "Don't worry, I'll leave enough 40 something year old men for you too, I won't take them all!!!"

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However, I do admit, that when I was much younger, I used to think that EVERY relationship with an older man was basically a gold-digging situation.
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My first 2 boyfriends were younger than me. All things being equal (or so I thought)... Why would you want someone older when you can get a young man? I couldn't understand it.

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In fact, I still do think (quite often) that when I see a young woman with a man who has a fat gut, balding head and wrinkly skin (basically anyone unattractive.. doesn't have just to be old). It makes me think... there can't possibly be any sexual attraction there... so it must be cold hard cash.

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(yes, shallow of me to think that, I know. Yes, maybe it's true love or what not, and there's someone out there for everyone of us.... but I can't help my gut feeling!)

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Like any girl who is relatively good looking, I've had my foray into Gold Digging.

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The most recent being the time of last years Formula-1 race in Singapore. I met a guy at a party because we were seated around the same area. (I didn't have a BF yet btw)

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We chatted and then the subject moved to shopping. 'I like to buy nice things for girls,' he said.

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(Note the PLURAL)

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'Would you like me to take you shopping tomorrow?' he asked.

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I must say... boy it was bloody tempting! But he was in his 50s, wasn't physically attractive (to me)... and there was something very lurkish and sleazy about the way he looked at me.

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Didn't take the shopping offer, but he did pay for all the drinks at my table. (Thank You Very Much).

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But if he were good looking, and I was attracted to him... would the story have turned out differently?

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I don't know. Even if he were rich AND physically attractive, I just think that a man who uses his wealth as a hook to get women... is not very appealing. Like what sort of women is he trying to attract?!

Granted, if you worked at McDonald's I would not date you (no offence please. I'll be your friend, but I wouldn't find you attractive as a partner) ....But an obvious attempt at flaunting one's wealth is a turn off.

I think that a man who knowingly buys a woman is no better than the woman who agrees to sell herself. It reduces human interaction to the level of a business deal.

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So.. that said. Why am I with an older man now (who doesn't work at McDonald's and... well, isn't exactly poor)?

If I said that I would have gone on that first date with him even if he were poor and ugly. I'd be a liar. Obviously, I've got to pick my mate based on some sort of standard. Otherwise I'd be dating the whole damn world.

His physical attractiveness is a factor and his stable finances is comforting, but definitely not enough to make me love him. It takes a man of strong character and intelligence to have achieved what he has today. And THAT is the attraction for me. So, would I stand by my man even if he were to hit rock bottom by some twist of fate? Yes, without a doubt. I don't love him for his money, I love him for being the man that he is.

A man mature enough to be able to give without weighing and calculating what he gets back (and no, I'm not talking Money).

To me, at this point of my life, Nothing could be more attractive.

If you could see through my eyes, hear through my ears, smell through my nose and feel through my body and love through my heart... only then you would understand.

So please, keep the bitterness to yourselves.

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but I know you probably won't :)

Girls, Have a Peek Into My Bathroom

I love my bathroom. It smells of Vanilla, it's fresh and clean, the towels are white and fluffy... and it's where I start and end my day.
Every night, before I go to bed I follow these 5 quick steps to ensure my skin is cared for while I sleep... and I look good when I wake!

Medicated Acne Gentle Make Off ($36) It's an oil that glides onto my skin...But it leaves no oily residue as it washes off easily, taking all the dirt and make up with it!

Medicated Acne Gentle Wash ($20) Having my cleanser in a bar form ensures that I lather it up by using a generous amount of water. When I turn my hands upside down, the lather is firm enough so that it does not fall off, that's when I know it's just right. I glide the creamy lather on my face. Be gentle on your skin, don't rub! If your cleanser makes your skin feel tight after washing, then it's too harsh!

Medicated Acne Version Up ($41, refill $36) This step is like a toner... only better! This product softens my skin surface so that it can absorb the maximum amount of goodness from my moisturiser. I use the Moisture Up formula because my skin is dry. But the Oil Control Version is available for oily skins.

Medicated Acne Aqua Shooter ($41, refill $36) This is a lightweight moisturiser that is easily absorbed by my skin. I love that it makes my skin feel hydrated yet not oily at all.

Medicated Acne Night Time Defense Powder ($40, refill $31) What??? Powder at night??

Surprise surprise... thus product is actually an award winning skincare powder. It's the last step of my skincare routine... I puff a light layer onto my face before sleeping, and when I wake up, my skin is smooth and refreshed! This powder has ultra fine particles, so it locks in moisture all night and smoothens my skin.

(Go down to the ettusais counter and try it! Just puff some onto your forearm... You'll be amazed at how fine the texture is, and how soft your skin feels. )

Of course, all these products give you clear fresh skin! :) For more info, do pop over to ettusais.

Quick Updates

Bailey woke me at 6 plus this morning... he just jumped on me.. gave me a shock. I got up, and switched the lights on because I had to check if he peed on my bed. He didn't! Fantastic... on a really good streak now. He's been using his pee tray in the corner of the room. Hope he hasn't been gnawing away at any more of my dresses at night... well, I'll find out ... if I ever get the willpower to sort my wardrobe out.

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A Japanese Hair Salon (tell u more when the time comes) has offered to sponsor my hairstyle for the blog awards ceremony. Which is great, my hair has been feeling rather plain.. would be great to have a professional hair designer give me a fab style.

That's settled. Now I just got to think of what to wear!

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I'm thinking of trying to make a Shrimp/crab bisque tonight (cos I dunnoe where to get Lobsters in the SG supermarket). But I have something on so I won't get home until nearly 8pm. I get damn grumpy when hungry.

Hmmmm.....

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Did you know there's a twitter application on Facebook where all your twitter updates automatically become Facebook status updates?

I've got over 1500 contacts on facebook, and only 60something are using this application. So if you have a twitter and facebook account, add this application!

Ok.. I'm off... more updates later!

Home Made Sex Toys

The MyFatPocket site is all about stretching your dollar. To me, that's living a great life without having to spend a lot of money.

So for my first sex article on the site, I shared with readers my top 10 homemade sex toys.

Click here to read it on the MFP site.

It's such a fun playful piece. The editor did a fab job with the pics.

So you have any? Add to the list! Share!

10 Things I've Learnt About Men

Men....

1. Don't Change

Even if you manage to change him, it's only temporary. Like a leopard and its spots, a bull and its horns... a man and his ways will never part.

And the older they are, the more set in their ways they tend to be.

2. Will Take Advantage Of You If You Let Him

Men aren't the predatorial beasts we make them out to be. It is the signals we send them which determine the kind of relationship we will have with him. If you look and act like an easy lay, a piece of meat, a bimbo... then that is what they will treat you as. If you're above that... then don't present yourself as such. Plenty of great men out there... set your sights on them instead.

3. Appreciate Woman Who Take The Initiative

I've found that men.. no matter how confident they are at work, or how brave they are when facing huge bugs, or even how much physical pain they can take..... in general they fear rejection.

But even if you are a couple, do take the initiative to plan the date, initiate sex, suggest a weekend getaway.

Take the reins every now and again, and make the first move instead of waiting for him.

4. Cannot Read Your Mind

You may think you’re being subtle, or that there are some things a guy should just know, but to him you’re just being confusing. It's no use. It will just end in you getting frustrated, and starting an argument.

If you want/feel/know something. Just tell him.

5. Men hate to lose

They're all competitive! Even if it's a friendly game of Tennis. They don't like losing. Get used to that.

6. Don't Like Feeling Jealous

I don't like feling jealous either. But with women... when we are jealous, we tend to get more possessive and more available to the man. But Men are different. If you try to make him want you more by playing the jealousy card. For instance, you start talking about this hot male colleague who is constantly flirting with you. He'll get tired of it and you'll soon find him out of the picture. To men... it's not worth the hassel, and they don't like having to feel jealous.

7. Men are sensitive in strange ways

I've found that a man is more sensitive about being accepted just the way he is. Any attempt to improve him makes him feel ultra threatened as though you are trying to change him because he is not good enough.

8. Have A double Standard In Sex

I've blogged about this before. [Click]

9. His State of Mind

How a man values a woman actually depends on his state of mind rather than the quality of the woman herself.

If a man is a player, then you are worthless to him as anything but a hole, no matter how pretty and/or great a person you are. They are just not ready for a relationship to value you more.

10. Men do not enjoy being tested

Men don't like it at all when your tests are administered based on the assumption that they are stupid or up to no good. (and yet we still persist!)

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When it comes to men... I've learnt a lot of things the hard way. Sad thing is...being the fool that I am, I'm still not immune to making the same mistakes again.



Any advice for that???!



What are some of the lessons you've learnt?

Oh Blonde!

This is a proud moment for me. My babies have grown up!

When i first started teaching 4 years ago... there was a pretty young girl with porcelain fair skin and fair hair in one of my literature classes.

Talented, wonderful personality and a very driven spirit. And now, after graduating ( makes me feel old!)... she runs OH BLONDE! A blogshop with quirkey little pieces.

Love this colour block toga dress... but sold out already!!! You got to be fast as everything gets snapped up.

There's something for every girl... from the Floral Princess to the Mod Babe to the Vintage Junkie.

From now until 31st Aug, my readers get 15% off their purchases at Oh Blonde! (code: HJLOB)My Favs from the latest collection:

Little Miss Nerd. I seldom wear t-shirts but this one is so adorable... love it.

Half Body Biker Jacket. A cool piece that adds a touch of rebel to any outfit.

Have a ditzy shopping experience... at OH BLONDE! :)

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If any of my former students are reading this... look at what determination and dreams can get you. If you want something, you got to go get it.

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Next post - 10 Things I've Learnt About Men.

10 Signs Your Man Is Cheating

Happy National Day!

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The My Fat Pocket site has been revamped. It no longer has the Ask Holly Jean column, but it has a Love & Sex column which I'll be writing.

(This is my signature on the site.. nice?nice???)

10 Signs Your Man Is Cheating
You can compromise on a lot of things in a relationship; time, money and even sex. But one thing you should never compromise on is fidelity. Even so, you cannot be around your man 24-7. So how would you know if he’s being faithful? Or not.

You don’t need an expensive private investigator but there are little everyday things which you can look out for. I call these Relationship Red Flags.

10. Clams Up

Beware of any sudden changes in your man’s personality. If he always used to be talkative… has he suddenly gone quiet all the time? People find it difficult to keep up with their lies, so instead of sharing with you about his day and activities (like he used to), you may find that he suddenly clams up (for fear of revealing too much).

9. Unreachable

He has a mobile phone but doesn’t pick up or it’s switched off. The usual excuses would be that he couldn’t get good reception, batteries were dead or he left the phone in the car. Be wary if this happens often.

8. Car Changes

Has the passenger seat been adjusted? Is there an unknown strand of hair? Is the radio tuned in to a different station than the usual one? Or is the aircon vent pointed to a different direction from where you left it?

7. Intimacy

Take note of any changes in frequency or quality of sex. Is he notieably less affectionate or more affectionate with you? A man may suddenly show ore affection to his partner because he feels guilty about the affair, or he may show less affection because of his commitment to someone else.

6. Image Revamp

If he hasn’t been particular about his dressing all along but suddenly takes an interest in fashion and his image - his makeover is probably not meant for you.

5. The Vanishing

Does he go to the supermarket to buy some cigarettes but takes 2 hours to return home? Does he work late all the time through the night? Work is commonly used as an excuse to account for large blocks of time away from home.

4. Where the Money?

Cheating is expensive. If your man seems to spend more money than usual, and yet you can’t see where the money went… maybe it’s time to start getting hold of his credit card statements or fish around for old receipts. No man can be 100% perfect, he will leave a trail.

3. Sneaky phone habits
Does he leave the room when he gets a call? Does he get mysterious late night phone calls? Does he take his mobile phone all over with him, including the toilet? (Maybe he can’t leave it alone because there’ll be incriminating evidence in it)!

2. Too Clean
You don’t have to smell the perfume or see the lipstick marks on his collar… it’s unlikely he’ll make such a grave mistake. Generally, men don’t like to change. It’s always the same soap, same aftershave, same deodorant, etc. So, if your man is suddenly cleaner than usual, it’s because he’s trying to get rid of any evidence left on him.

1. Your Gut Says So
A woman’s intuition is usually right. Without hinting at your suspicion of them, tell him that your friend confided in you that someone told her that they had seen her husband out with another woman. If he is guilty of cheating, when he hears this, he will panic. See if you can catch any signs of alarm or nervousness in him.

*Word of caution* Under no circumstances should you fly into a rage and accuse him of being a cheat simply because a couple of red flags go up! These red flags should be taken as a warning that something may be amiss, and that you should pay more attention to your relationship, just to make sure nothing is going on.(Please do leave your comments and Other signs you know of).

The last thing you want is to be the fool who doesn’t see everything that’s happening right under her nose! 

Click here to view this article and archives on MFP .

Kissing Faces

What are you doing on Saturday 22nd Aug???

My brother's short film, Kissing Faces is premiering at the 6th Singapore Short Cuts at the National Museum on the 22nd of Aug at 2pm. It will be shown together with 4 other independent films. Total screening for the event that day is about an hour long. Click Here for the Itinerary: National Museum To find out more about the film, Click Here for the Sindie Interview (Singapore Independent Films)

Click Here for the Facebook Event.

Free tickets to can be collected from 15th August onwards at the National Museum of Singapore’s Stamford Visitor Services Counter. First come, first served basis and limited to four tickets per person. Or can be collected at the door on (the day of the screening) 22nd Aug, (provided they are not all snapped up yet).

See you there! :D

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How are you going to spend National Day?

Flea-tique is on at the Singapore Arts Museum. I'm keen on having a stall at a flea market soon ( but I'm too late for this one... and I haven't sorted my wardrobe out yet). If you hear of any other flea markets coming up, do leave me a comment... I want to rent a stall for fun.

Haven't got your own Puff Angel yet?

Puff Accessories has a stall at the Singapore Arts Museum bazaar this Sunday (9th Aug).

ASK Holly Jean: How To Look Skinny

It's been a while since the last ASK HJ column. So here it is... :)

Dear Holly Jean,

I used to be fit and active. I just had a baby and now I have stretchmarks and I am FAT! I put on 24Kgs during pregnancy, and after giving birth, I only lost 7 Kgs! So the rest of the extra weight is MINE! I am even heavier than my husband now. It’s depressing me.

I cannot exercise much now, because I have a job and I am busy taking care of my baby girl. I have no money for a “quick fix” like surgery. But I am getting so depressed with my body. Feel so insecure because the girls at my workplace are skinny. What can I do to make me appear skinny… until I have the time to hit the gym again.

Baby Fat

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Dear Baby Fat,

Firstly, Congratulations on your baby girl!!!

Actually, this is one of the reasons I fear getting pregnant. But there are women out there who lose the pregnancy weight and look great. So think positive, and aim to be that woman.

Until you have time to exercise ( I know it must be hell trying to balance work and the baby now)... here are…

Holly Jean’s Top 5 Insta-Skinny Tips:

5. Get a tan. A healthy looking tan gives the impression of a toner body. If you can’t get any sun, you may want to experiment with self-taners. (though I heard self tanners can be a nightmare, like too orangey)

4. Wear Heels. It lengthens your body and makes your legs look skinny. (Not chunky heels though, they're ugly! Stilletos or wedges are nice)

3. Support Underwear. If you want to appear skinny in clothes and give the illusion of a skinny figure, go for supportive underwear which help to pull in the tummy. Yeah... I mean those panties with the high waists. You can go back to sexy thongs and Gstrings when you lose the excess fat! Support underwear doesn't have to be unsexy though.. think lovely corsets, and support pantyhose/tights.

2. Colour. It's not just black that makes you look thinner. Wearing an entire outfit of just one color will do the trick as well, whether it is white, beige, brown, blue or red. One color tends to elongate your figure. (and NO horizontal stripes!)

1. Posture. Pull shoulders back, chest forward and gently suck stomach in. Be proud of who you are, and how you look, regardless of your pregnancy fat.

Once, again, congratulations on the new baby!

Forever,
Holly Jean

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P/S - you may also want to read Do Men Really Think Their Wives Are Attractive After Pregnancy? .. which I wrote like 2 years ago! But it's a laugh.

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PP/s - Girls (and guys looking to buy stuff for your girl)
Simply Intimate has a special promo for my readers in August. Purchase any of the following bustiers at an exclusive price of S$49.00 each (U.P. S$58-S$68)

*Key in code: HJSP49 in the comments box upon checkout.
Promotion valid until 31 August ’09 or while stocks last. Offer not applicable with other promotions.

I have this one.

Do check out their other stuff too. I'm super duper in love with this cute robe of mine.

(Don't forget you can still use the previous promo code HJCOR10 in the comments section upon check out... for 10 % discount. Terms & Conditions: Promotion valid until 15 August 2009 or while stocks last. Not valid with other promotions.

Did you get Spammed By NUFFNANG too?

Just got spammed by nuffnang. Like 50 plus emails from nuffnang jammed in my box at one shot.

Look:

Did you get it too? Or just me. Strange.

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Meanwhile.. here's Bailey using his pink potty. Clever boy!
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Click here for video of the dunking I had last week.

Oh... just read that the blog awards results will be out on the 20th of this month.

So You Think You're Pregnant

P/s - For those asking for pics of new fringe... nah.

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There are 2 Parts to this post - 1st is testing for pregnancy, 2nd is about whether I want to be pregnant.Ever since I started the Ask Holly Jean section in January this year, I've been getting emails from girls panicking and worrying whether or not they might be pregnant. (Usually they say it's their friend who's in the situation, and they're asking on their behalf) !

And yes, I do reply to every email that comes my way (the best that I can) but ... come on... I have pretty good intuition but I'm not some sort of Wizard. How am I supposed to know if you're pregnant or not?! This is one problem I simply cannot solve for you.

So hopefully, anyone in this predicament will google or search my blog and land on this post. Or If I get another email about this topic, I can just send them this link.

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So you THINK you're pregnant?

Firstly, there's absolutely no point panicking or having sleepless nights waiting for your late period.

No point thinking that you're pregnant. You can't make objective decisions or move forward unless you're sure. Go get tested! It's sooo simple.

You can get a test kit (about S$8 to $15) from any pharmacy or supermarket. It's usually stacked up where all the condoms are. Just get the cheapest in my opinion, they all work the same.For the sake of demonstration, I got one today. I also find it fun to do stuff like this, just for kicks. Take it out of the packaging. Take the cap off. There are instructions, but basically they all work like this -

1. pee on the end.

2. Replace the cap, and lay it flat.3. Wait for results in the window. Mine appeared within seconds. But it can take up to 5 minutes (not more)

4. One line - NOT pregnant. (That's my result). Two lines - Pregnant. (It should be 2 clear lines)

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Ok, so if you are pregnant (and don't want to be) ... Now You Can Panick (a bit).
See a doctor. Consider your options.

If you want an abortion, in Singapore, the legal time limit for abortion is 24 weeks into the pregnancy. But I heard that anything after 12 weeks is through surgery. This is messy and more risky. Below 12 weeks, the abortion is done via vacuum.

I looked it up and it can cost between $300 to $2000. I remember when I was an undergrad, one of my friends got pregnant. And I followed her to the polyclinic to get a refferal to KK hospital. She had to do this because if she were referred over to KK by a private clinic, the abortion would not be subsidised and end up costing more.

If you asked me, I think it's very cruel to abort. But I am still pro choice (the lesser evil perhaps).

If you're thinking - hmmm maybe I can just eat a lot of pineapple and try to get a miscarriage.... Don't be stupid.. all you're going to get is a bad stomach ache.... and still be pregnant. Always see a doctor!

Don't cry over spilt milk... and don't just ignore it hoping it isn't true. Talk to your parents (if you dare) and your BF (or whoever it was) and consider your options ( to keep it, abort it, or put it up for adoption).

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The Second Part of my post

You know... when I did that pregnancy test kit even though it was purely for fun and demo purposes.... when I was waiting for the results to appear, for those few seconds, I had a secret desire for it to come out positive. Imagine that!

When only one stripe appeared, I felt a tinge of disappointment.

I don't know why I felt that way. I mean... I haven't been trying to get pregnant.. and I definitely believe in marriage first before having children. I am conventional like that.

It's somewhat scary that I felt that way. I mean God... realistically, if I got pregnant, it would be a nightmare! Do I get married straight away? Do I abort? Would my life ever be the same?! Would I question if Mark only married me because I was carrying his child?! It's insane.

So... be safe everyone. Plan for these things.

What do you think? Have you ever felt this way? If you found yourself (or your girlfriend) pregnant, what would you choose to do? What's your opinion of women who choose to have kids even if they're not married? Be honest.

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For ladies who go for brazilians...

On a side note, it's kerry's birthday and for the month of August, everybody is getting a gift.

For every session of brazilian wax (only $46) at The Golddust, you will get a free pair of tiny sexy Brazillian panties! [Not applicable for package or priviledge card.]

Available in 3 sizes and a variety of funky colours. Very bum flattering and great to show off your new brazillian wax in.

OK, that's it for today. Do let me know your comments about pregnancies (before marriage), is it still taboo?

The Quest For Feminine Flawlessness

On Monday, I had the privilege of reviewing Clear SK's newest outlet in Tampines.

Unlike most aesthetic clinics in Singapore which are run by "technicians" or "beauty therapists"... all treatments at Clear SK are carried out by Doctors.

The Owner and Medical Director of ClearSK™ Aesthetic Centres, 40-year-old Dr. Shiau Ee Leng graduated from the National University of Singapore’s Medical faculty in 1993. She is a senior family physician trained by the College of Family Physicians. Dr. Shiau is a certified Laser Physician and performs a full range of aesthetic procedures such as laser, botox, chemical peelers, fillers, Intense Pulse Light (IPL) medical procedures and non-surgical facelifts. She leads a team of competent lady doctors.

The reassuring thing about ClearSk is that it is equipped and staffed like a medical facility, but the decor and soothing ambiance gives it a luxurious spa atmosphere.
Staff at the centre are friendly, well-informed and able to give professional advice about the various services available.
The list of services they had available was so extensive and very very tempting. I chose to undergo Super Hair Removal (SHR) on my forearms. Since that's an area that I never can be bothered to shave or wax, and yet there is visible hair there. SHR technology is still very very new (developed in the US a couple of years ago) compared to IPL, which has been around for 20 years. I don't know of any other centre here in Singapore that has this technology yet.
Normally, people use IPL to remove hair permanently, however, it doesn't work if you have fair Caucasian skin or very dark skin. Furthermore, Dr Shiau likened IPL to a "Bomb" which shoots an intense pulse onto one area. That's why, when not administered by a medical professional, it can burn some people. At best, it will feel like many pricking needles! SHR, is more like a tiny machine gun which shoots tiny pulses but over a greater frequency. The result? The same hairlessness! Yet with no pain, no heat or discomfort. Completely safe.

And on top of that... SHR rejuvenates the skin and causes it to lighten. I was just amazed at how soft my arms were immediately after treatment. And no more hair!!! I have sensitive skin... but this treatment did not have any side effects at all. No rash, no tightness or pain. I highly recommend it to anyone who wants permanent hair removal.

Their treatments are available to both Men and Women. Clear SK Aesthetic has 4 centres in the heartlands (Toa Payoh, Novena, Tampines and Jelapang Rd) which means they bring the same aesthetic treatments (such as slimming, botox and IPL) much closer to you and at lower prices.

Want to get rid of hair on your legs, bikini line, face, armpits.. painlessly? Visit ClearSK for a consultation. I give it a thumbs up!

More info on SHR and other treatments available, visit: www.clearskincentre.com

Blog Awards Interview

My Blog Awards Interview...a bit late to be up on the site... but Click Here To Read It :)

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By the way, just cut my fringe today. I prefer it short and on my face. But not straight across this time, a messier fringe instead. :) Though I am finding a shaggy fringe annoying (always in my eyes) and I think I'll keep it a week before cutting it straight across.

A Stranger Made Me Wet

Long Post with loads of pics... but before I get to the juicy bits... let me do a quick weekend update:

Saturday afternoon we went to ION on Orchard.... yes the place is HUGE, but nothing to shout about. The usual shops...layout is maze and tunnel like.. went through 4 basement floors of shopping.... What do they think we are? Moles?!

I actually got a headache from it. One thing I did like... was the Duck at Modern Peking ( Basement 4). Only 6 bucks for 5 slices of duck rolled up in little pancakes. Yum. BUT I had to queue for 20 mins (not exaggerating).

Went home for a swim.... and watched some TV (Addicted to the new BBC lifestyle channels... they're free for now.. for 10 days I think. Probably will subscribe once the ten days are up)

Saturday night, dinner at Bedrock at The Pan Pacific Suites (Somerset). The setting is perfect, as long as you are deaf. Romantic set up, tastefully done up... but bloody horrible loud Rock music... like Hardrock cafe.. only at 3 times the price!)I wore my red corset from Simply Intimates and jeans. Ooh... for those interested in getting a sexy figure flattering corset, stay tuned, will tell you about a promotion happening soon!Food... well... Mark's steak was good and so was the pan fried Sea bass I had. LOOOVE the fresh mushy garlic still in the bulb and skin... yummy when spread on their flat bread. For Starter, I had carpaccio (dunnoe how to spell), that was yum... but Mark's Smoked Tomato soup (supposedly their specialty), was shit! No kidding. Tasted exactly like tomato puree out of a can. Dessert was caramel Ice cream sandwich...ice cream was rich and creamy, but the biscuit was hard like rocks. Then we walked over to check out KPO (the Killeney Post Office) . The place is much larger than I thought! Huge bar, and the outdoor area has a great low key loungey feel. Make-up stayed on the whole night thanks to my ettusais pre make up base!

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And now... The Stranger that made me wet... well actually there's more than just one stranger haha.

That's because I got dunked at the Nissan Summer Car Wash this afternoon!

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.The very first person to give me my virgin dunk, was none other than my very own BF! Think he was getting back at me for all the crappy cooking I made him eat (in the past... now improved ok!).Got dunked 4 times in total ( no.. not all by Mark!) After the first fall... it wasn't scary anymore. But everytime I fall... I'm like a cannon ball.... I have no control of my limbs whatsoever, just drop with a fat arse splash.I was wet.. and cold... and breathed in more than enough water for the day.

Scorching hot sun.... sopping wet clothes... but it was for charity and it was indeed a good laugh. Was a great day after all. One more for the memory books. I hope to do more stuff like that soon.

See You This Sunday!

Hi all!

It's time to dunk the bloggers into a tank cold cold water (!!!)

Don't forget to head down to the Nissan Summer Car Wash this weekend! I'll be at the dunk tank at the Nissan (Ubi) Showroom (19 Ubi Road 4) from 3 to 4 pm. Come say hi... or fork out $2 for 3 tries to dunk me... it's all for charity.

Proceeds will go to the Straits Times Pocket Money Fund which gives pocket money to school going kids who are financially less fortunate. :)

For more info about the event and how you can get your Car Washed for 10 cents!!- click here
To read about it on asiaone - Click here

Gah! I should have put a note on my blog asking for a bikini and shorts sponsor or chose something suitable from my sponsors annyee's bikini collection. But I didn't think of it! Now I got to wear something old. Oh well.

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Meanwhile, I'm please to say that annyee has more accessories (bags and belts and shoes) now.. and a cosplay and costume range too.Here's my French Maid costume. Ooh sir... can I polish your rod, sir?
LoL
... and my fire-engine-red bag.

I've been so spoilt by annyee, ettusais and many blogshops because they have such fab stuff! (Thank you)

Best part is - they're affordable so you can have it all too! Of course, I'll do my best to get rewards/discounts/prizes for my readers.

And if I endorse it, it has my approval because I truly think it's fab.

Can a girl really ever have too much stuff?!

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P/S- ever since I got rid of my straight across bangs, my hair has been look blah. I'm going to get the back trimmed since swimming has given me split ends!!!! So I might as well cut the front as well.

I'm thinking of short fringe, but not straight across the forehead like I had before. If you have any pics/examples of what might suit me, pls do leave a URL in the comments section so I can go see..... it's time for something different (not mad radical), but I need ideas/inspiration. Help me k!